You might just run into someone who gets you and has the same interests. If we all just get back to respecting each other and appreciating what each gender has to offer, we might have a chance at NOT becoming the most disconnected culture on earth. I would never go out with an old woman again, they are to sexist. Thank you, I really like your point about the statistics. I went online tonight looking for articles to give tips and ways to make the best of my situation. I try to look at the good in people and treat them the way I’d like to be treated.
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Someone who will have my back and I’ll have his. I get just as much pleasure loving someone as I get by being loved. I am not looking for a younger man either. I want someone close to my age but would consider a few years younger or older.
This is how a great deal of the older dating world operates , on a lather- rinse- repeat cycle. The juicy part of love comes when you realize that a good woman wants your heart and a really great one will help show you the way to give it . I am sorry, all of you good guys, who have been swept aside like trash when you’ve done nothing wrong worth breaking up a marriage or relationship over. I am still waiting for one of you to find me so I can show you what true love really is, in this world where now it is a rare thing indeed.
I’d be more than happy to pay my way and so would a lot of other older gals. Good luck with that young gal you found, enjoy it while it lasts. After being in intimate relationships with men all of my adult life there is no way I could have an intimate relationship with a woman. I am just not interested in women that way, and I like what I can have with a man. I spend a good chunk of my life being respondible.
You give these guys what they claim they want and they don’t want it anymore. I will be better off alone than to deal with rejection after rejection just for caring and wanting to love a man. I don’t even know if a stable, genuine man exists anymore. Said I was being over the top , said he didn’t need this with all he’s going through, and we ought to step back and take a breath. He is totally freaked out so I offered to walk away and leave him alone. I am not someone who enjoys being alone.
Even that was a lie because he married someone soon after the divorce and she had older children. She never gave him a baby, and it turns out he’d been in contact with her for years while he and I were married. I also supported him through years of school so he could make a good life for us. After all the degrees he attained he felt I was not good enough for him anymore. I found him online a year after he remarried looking for some action on the side.
They would not choose an older man for physical attraction nor for sexual performance, nor for respect. These priorities are the wrong way around. Men may not be able to function, and women may not want to function.
Quite often love can come to us when we least expect it. I hope that will be the case for you, and soon. I have posted here occasionally for the past few years and nothing much has changed for me, except that I moved from north to south. I find the situation with men here even worse than before. Now at almost 53 years old I am totally turned off to the idea of being with anyone again.
Its been about 4 years since my wife left me and I haven’t had even the slightest bit of interest from a single female to act on. I feel your pain Jeffery and can relate 100% to everything you wrote. Wisdom doesn’t always come with age, nor is what wisdom we may have universal to all aspects of existence/experience – we may have wisdom in some things but not others. That’s extremely sad and I understand your fear. It’s very unfortunate that this is the case with a lot of men our age….they are afraid to get burned again. I have never lied about loving a man and I don’t understand how anyone could be so cruel.
My personal experience is that 50-something women “want it all” with little to no effort on their part. Without that, they are willing to lead a life that centers around their girlfriends, children, and cats. DaveW……I easily fit into your criteria and I am attractive, intelligent, funny, and respectful. I can easily hold a conversation and I am genuinely interested in who I am talking with. At almost 52 it has been no picnic trying to find a man who is secure within himself and trusting enough to really want a relationship anymore. I am not a bar scene gal, and dating sites are terrible.